How to Orgasm with Your Partner

Reaching climax at the same moment as your partner is a highly pleasurable experience that can take your lovemaking to the next level, but can be a little tricky to achieve. Following these tips can help you reach mutual climax, and build a new element of desire into your relationship along the way.

Stay in the Moment

Often the main challenge in achieving a mutual climax is that men tend to reach climax more quickly than women, and because of this, how to last longer in bed may be a thought in a lot of minds. Many men use distraction methods so that they can last longer in the bedroom, such as the ‘stop-start’ method. However, this can interrupt both the mood and moment, causing more of a distraction for you and your partner.>

Although you may feel eager to reach orgasm, concentrating on the moment and really understanding the needs of your partner not only helps to prolong duration but can help ultimately lead to a satisfying, simultaneous orgasm.

The KY® Duration® Spray is a male genital desensitizer designed to prolong the time until ejaculation. By following the usage instructions provided with the product, this helpful product helps you to take control of when you will reach climax by temporarily prolonging the time until premature ejaculation, which may help your partner reach it with you.

"Although you may feel eager to reach orgasm, concentrating on the moment and really understanding the needs of your partner not only helps to prolong duration but can help ultimately lead to a satisfying, simultaneous orgasm."

Talk about Timing

Time is not always about duration; timing that exact moment so that you reach your desired fulfillment together can be a little tricky, and it is not always up to the men.

Firstly, talking is key. Tell each other when you are close; this not only helps you both achieve simultaneous orgasm but can turn love-making with your partner into a unique experience that will bring you closer together as a couple.

If sex talk is not something you feel comfortable with, try looking out for signs when your partner is close to reaching climax. For men, signs he may be close can range from a sudden tension in the body, changes in breathing and, simply, a certain way their bodies move. This is also similar for a woman; an increased heart rate and contracting muscles being the main signs of a female climax. The more connected you are as a couple, and the more you experience together, the easier it will be for you to read your partner’s body language and reactions to pleasure.

Change Your Routine

Reaching optimum satisfaction with your partner can be done through experimenting in the bedroom. Changing up from your usual routine and trying something new can add a new element of fun to your relationship.

Even if you are completely fulfilled with your relationship’s bedroom activity, you may be surprised by new positions. Whether these positions are spontaneous or planned, finding new but comfortable positions that work for both of you can create a powerful thrill that helps you synchronize orgasms.

Intensify the Intimacy

Encouraging each other to orgasm through touch is a pleasurable experience that brings passion and intimacy to your relationship. Appreciating each other’s bodies by kissing, cuddling and touching can make both you and your partner feel good while increasing your levels of oxytocin and dopamine. These two chemicals of attraction and attachment are the perfect mix of hormones to reach optimum sexual fulfillment.

For many women, reaching climax during intercourse can be difficult. According to a study by the IU School of Public Health, ¾ women report that clitoral stimulation is necessary to orgasm whilst lovemaking. Be confident with your hands, and introduce ‘outercourse’, such as rubbing, kissing and other non-penetrative sexual activity, to your intercourse. This helps both you and your partner to reach maximum pleasure together while enjoying the romantic desire of discovery.