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How to Choose Your First Vibrator

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Introducing a toy into the bedroom can be a really great way to intensify your experience with your partner, and even help build intimacy and trust. The first stop in sex toys is usually a vibrator.

Vibrators are fun and having one can be very fulfilling for you and your partner. If this is your first time shopping for a vibrator, here are some tips for choosing:

 

Research online

With no prying eyes, take some alone time to find out what's out there. The Internet is a great resource for researching the various vibrators out there.

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Ask questions

If you have friends who you know use vibrators and you feel comfortable talking to them about your desires, then by all means, do so! Talking to a close friend can sometimes be easier than talking to a total stranger.

  

Don't worry if your first choice is a miss

It's important not to take the process of finding a vibrator too seriously. If your first choice isn't for you, don't be deterred. There are a plethora of options in the market so try again until you find something that suits you and your partner.

 

References

  • Buying Your First Vibrator: A Beginners Guide

About the Author

Kat George is an Australian writer living in New York. She writes for Bustle, Vice, Refinery29, Noisey, The Village Voice and VH1. She is the author of the book "Pink Bits" and creator of the web series "The Big Gulp".

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